"One question I get often – especially from folks who already struggle with anxiety and dealing with conflict – is how to first respond without doing further damage. When our emotions put up a wall in front of us, it can feel like we’re cornered or trapped, and we become reactive instead of thoughtful. We can wind up rambling, making excuses, denying the impact, and even gaslighting – all in a frantic attempt to deescalate the situation. And unfortunately, we end up perpetuating the harm that prompted the call-out in the first place."
A good primer from Medium on the language of anti-racism. Words like white fragility, structural racism, and white exceptionalism are explained.
By Dr. Eddie Moore, Jr. "For 21 days, do one action [each day] to further your understanding of power, privilege, supremacy, oppression, and equity. Plan includes suggestions for readings, podcasts, videos, observations, and ways to form and deepen community connections."
From Dismantling Racism: A Workbook for Social Change Groups, by Kenneth Jones and Tema Okun, ChangeWork, 2001. Useful descriptors and antidotes for our dominant culture.
A compilation of articles.
By Nicole A. Cooke. Publishers Weekly. June 19, 2020. “To be sure, reading is an an important first step. Anti-racism is a long game. Instead of just reading, I want to challenge you to go the distance. I want you to do the real work of becoming anti-racist. I want you to commit to being teachable. To acknowledge that you’re not always right. We all have room to grow, change, and do better. Anti-racism requires risk, vulnerability, and accountability. But it also brings whole new levels of understanding and empathy. So, how to approach the hard work of becoming anti-racist? I suggest viewing your anti-racist journey in three stages...”
By Peggy McIntosh. Discusses daily effects of white privilege